She sends him nasty texts saying he is forgetting his friends if he hasn’t seen her for a while, posts catty comments on his facebook page, yet he still won’t cut her off.
He says it is easier to remain friends with her than not to, but I personally won’t surround myself with people who are so toxic.
Now, have you ever had someone you had a relationship with that other people didn’t approve of… People would say they didn’t like the person and they would give a reason. It was yours – they didn’t know the person in the way you knew them. and frankly, you didn’t want to explain it to them because really it’s none of their business (and they probably wouldn’t see your point of view anyway).
The first time you would take their opinion into consideration (because after all, the person who said it to you is probably someone that you know cares for you.) But regardless of their opinion, it didn’t change yours. Still, you appreciated their sentiment since you knew it was said out of their love and concern for you. Now you’re getting annoyed – they don’t know that person how you know them!
Is it just a rule that you shouldn’t go near you friends exes even when you really like them? Given that, though, I believe that you should talk to your friend about it first, to see if it’s okay if you pursue a relationship with him.
She might be seeing other people, and he might as well and she might not care, but she is a close friend and obviously still has hostile feelings towards him.
Talk to her about it first, and if she isn’t okay with it I would suggest not going for it, at least not until she is fine with it. Sometimes, you really can’t help who you have a crush on – so if you end up crushing on your BFF’s ex, don’t make yourself feel horribly guilty. Would you ever meet up with someone you met online?
It was a bad breakup, and now whenever he is mentioned, she says stuff like “I hate him”, “he is a [email protected]”.
Baring in mind they broke up quite a while ago and she’s sort of seen other people, is it bad for me to fancy him?